The preaching dress

A friend posted this link about being a woman in pastoral ministry:

http://jeremiahgibbs.com/2014/11/29/women-pastors-and-male-privilege/

My first reaction was: "how true, I always wear a dress with no pockets when I'm preaching". I've had to dash into the ladies' loo many a time to try and find somewhere to hook the battery pack. Usually under the dress, over the waistband of my tights, which creates a very oddly shaped bump in my clothing...

Then I thought about all the times since beginning my training for Christian ministry that I have become conscious of being 'other' when in a room full of older white men. I'm fortunate enough to work with two very affirming male colleagues and to have trained alongside many men who never made my gender an issue. But the contrast between Baptist ministry and secondary school education, which is my professional background, is very striking. I can totally relate to the woman who said that when she was in a meeting with other ministers she was trying to work out who around the table thought she should be there.

But, you know, being 'other' is no bad thing. If nothing else, it has made me more aware of the ways I can judge or marginalise others unintentionally. And while you can't yet get a clip mic suitable for women's clothing, you can apparently get a clerical shirt in pink gingham. I'm so tempted.

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