For a variety of reasons, back in May I came to the conclusion that I needed to do something about my weight. I had never been a member of a slimming club before, or really tried dieting, even though there had been times over the years when I'd been unhappy about my weight. Watching what you ate all the time and weighing yourself just seemed a really joyless way to live. Just as I'd decided that I needed to take action, a flyer for Slimming World came through our letterbox. I discovered that the nearest meeting was a five-minute walk from our house, so getting to the weekly weigh-in could not have been easier. The issue of weight, fat and body image is an extremely tricky one for women. I'm told that men struggle with this too, but I don't know much about it so I won't presume to comment. As a feminist, I believe that society uses rules about appearance to control women and put them down; as a woman, there are little voices inside my head ...